There was a moment yesterday while at the Tower when I went to lift my glass and I couldn’t do it. My muscles, apparently, had finaly caught up to my brain and given in to the strain and schedule I’ve been running at this month. I slumped back in my chair, using the wall to prop me up. I think the posse thought I was just a bit tipsy. But not at all. I’m not used to feeling overwhelming sadness. Sure, we all have a nugget of that inside us, and mine, for good reason, I think, tends to be a bit bigger than many others. But lately, not just the last week but the past couple months, the sadness is consuming me. I try to keep reminding myself (as do others) of how much I’ve got going for me. And I do, it’s true. But there’s also a point where none of that seems to matter any more.
There are moments of hope, oh yes. Where the smile on the face and in my eyes is genuine. Moments where I feel like me again, whatever the hell that means (obviously, not in that mood right now).
I know the weak and the sad is because my health is a bit out of control right now. That is some comfort, knowing that once that is again under control I’ll be back on my feet again.
I know that I’m the only one that can make myself better.
But all I want is someone to hold me while I fall asleep, whisper words of reassurance and love in my ear, feed the ego a bit.
And if I wake up, I want a big ass plate of meatloaf and mashed potatoes waiting for me. The homemade kind, infused with bits of saltines to make the meat stretch father, and fill my belly and soul wish the nourishment both are so badly craving right now.
And then, on the other hand, I just want to be done.